人生45堂课( 英汉双语)

45 lessons in life 人生教我的45堂课

作者：Regina Brett，90岁

美国俄亥俄州，克里夫兰，Plain Dealer城

1.Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

人生是不公平，但还是好得很2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

怀疑的时候，朝着未来踏出一小步

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

人生太短，短到来不及浪费时间去恨任何人

4. Your job won‘t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

生病的时候，你的工作不会照顾你；你的朋友和父母会。与他们保持联系

每个月付清你的信用卡

6. You don't have to win every argument.

Agree to disagree.

你不需要每一次都吵赢。同意你不同意的

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

找人一起哭，比独自啜泣更加疗愈

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

对上帝生气没有关系，祂受得了

退休存款从你的第一张薪水条开始

10. When it comes to chocolate,

resistance is futile.

讲到巧克力，抗拒只是徒劳无功

11. Make peace with your past so it won‘t

screw up the present.

与你的过去和解，别让它搞砸你的当下12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

让你的孩子看到你哭没有关系

beautiful or joyful.

丢掉没用的，不美的，或不喜欢的东西

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

没让你死的事情，真的会让你更坚强

second one is up to you and no one else.

重拾快乐童年永不嫌晚，但这第二次只能靠你自己

20. When it comes to going after what you love

in life, don‘t take no for an answer.

当事情关乎你的生命所爱，不要把不当答案

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

点蜡烛，用好的床单，穿上炫丽的内衣。不要等特殊场合才用，今天就是特别的一天

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

准备要周全，然后随遇而安

Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

现在就离经叛道，不要等一把年纪了才开始穿上紫色

24. The most important sex organ

is the brain.

最重要的性器官是你的脑袋

25. No one is in charge of your happiness

but you.

除了你，没有人能主宰你的快乐

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these

words ''In five years, will this matter?".

用一句话概括你所有的不幸，并把它表框

起来：“五年后，这还重要吗？”

永远选择生活28. Forgive everyone everything.

原谅每一个人每一件事

29. What other people think of you is

none of your business...

别人怎么看你，根本不关你的事…

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.

时间会痊愈几乎每一件事，给自己时间，时间

无论情况多好或多坏，它都会变的

32.Don‘t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

不要对自己太过认真，没有人会这样做的

相信奇迹

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

上帝爱你是因为祂是上帝，不是因为你做

了什么或是没做什么

35. Don't audit life. Show up and

make the most of it now.

不要谨慎地审视人生。现在就呈

现出你最大的光环

36. Growing old beats the alternative —

dying young.

变老了是胜利，它打败了另一种选

项—死得早

你的孩子只有一个童年

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

真正最重要的是你爱过