sons and lovers

The Third Kind of Love

Mrs Morel married a man who is addicted to alcohol ,so she shifted love from her husband to her son .The love that Mrs Morel had given is abnormal, far beyond sons and mothers. .So when Paul fell in love with a girl, he felt so confused to his love with Miriam .It had happened without either of them planning it ,but without trying, they had become the closest friend in each others lives .When Paul had finished a work ,he liked nothing more than to show it to Miriam .From what she said about his paintings ,she learned something about himself. She helped him to see what he is .Paul wanted a love that went beyond the normal of love .He wanted passion and an artistic love.

But Mrs Morel was unhappy to see that her son fell in love with others because she thought her son would never be hers anymore. Pau was afraid of loving Miriam. At first Paul hated Miriam for having taken away his joy. He knew that Miriam did not want to it, but she had. When he had been with Miriam ,he felt trapped inside himself .Finally he told Miriam he could not be her man ,as he would always fail her .They were at the mind ,but life was so much more than that .

At the beginning, Mrs.Morel couldn't choose her lover in a right way. She and Morel only have a favorable impression on each other but that wasn't mentally understanding and incorporation so it led to tragedies . Her neglect and cold led to her husband drinking and degenerating. After had children, she hoped she could find the spiritual pursuit that she couldn't find on his husband. Every words and acts of her not only widen the distance between her and her husband but also affect her children who combined with their mother and dealt with their father. So the influence of Mrs.Morel didn't bring benefits to her family.Meanwhile she had profoundly affected Paul. The love of Mrs.Morel led Paul to more depend on her

and caused Paul couldn't have a right choice between Clara and Miriam. Therefore producing the third kind of love.

Paul, who is believed as the incarnation of Lawrence himself, gradually feels his debt to his mother.He has strong and intense emotion to care her and love her forever. He would feel bitter to see his mother become older ,or weep for the life. Freud believed that the relationship between the mother and child is the most perfect relationship in the world . If William not dead, if Arthur is more reasonable, if Paul itself a bit less sense of responsibility, or even... If the mother is a happy family, if a father more gentle temper ,maybe the story would have an happy ending. Maybe every mother naturally dislike his daughter-in-law and is afraid of his own son stolen,.Women are selfish,Mrs.Morel lost her husband's love, she hope to get from the son, the feeling in anyway destroy the three people's love.Until Mrs.Morel had died Paul has got rid of the shackles of her and left his hometown and lovers. It was the third kind of love that led to he tragedy,

The Butterfly Lovers

The Butterfly Lovers Zhu Yingtai is a beautiful and intelligent young woman. Although traditions of that era discourage females from going to school, Zhu manages to convince her father to allow her to attend classes in disguise as a young man. During her journey to Hangzhou, she meets Liang Shanbo, a scholar from Kuaiji（Kuàijī, present-day Shaoxing). They chat and feel a strong affinity for each other at their first meeting. They study together for the next three years in school and Zhu gradually falls in love with Liang. Although Liang equals Zhu in their studies, he is still a bookworm and fails to notice the feminine characteristics exhibited by his classmate. One day, Zhu’s father asked her to return home as soon as possible. Liang accompanies his "sworn brother" for 18 miles to see her off. During the journey, Zhu hints to Liang that she is actually a woman. Before they part, Zhu reminds Liang to visit her residence later so he can propose to marry her "sister." Months later, when Liang visits Zhu, he discovers that she is actually a woman. They make a vow of "till death do us part" But zhu's parents have already arranged for her to marry a man from a rich family called Ma Wencai. Liang is heartbroken when he hears the news and his health gradually deteriorates. Then

《儿子和情人》读后感

Sons and Lovers is a noverl written by David Herbert Lawrence and it was first published in 1913 in London by Wyman and Sons. https://www.sodocs.net/doc/7d9846142.html,wrence was born at Eastwood,Notts,on September 11th ,1885,the fourth child of a miner family who had been employed at Brinsley Colliery since he was 7years old.In 1911,his first novel The white Peacock was published. Sons and Lovers is divided into 3parts and is composed of 15chapters together. The story wa,set in England,can be interpreted as an autobileographicalnovel novel of Lawrence.The hero of the book,Paul Morel,is the second son of a miner family.His mother,Mrs.Morel,is a daughter of a mid-class family.Because of the differences in family background and education,a shadow is soon cast upon the married life of Mrs.Morel.And this shadow is darkened by Mr.Morel's laziness and

翻译练笔Hello, Young Lovers

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读后感(儿子与情人-)sons-and-lovers

The Interpretation of the flowers in Sons and Lovers Abstract Sons and Lovers, written by DH Lawrence, is an earlier works that reflects both penetrating social problem and psychological problem. The theme of the novel is Paul Morel's relationship with his mother and her influence upon his development. This paper will talk about the symbol meanings of the flowers. In this novel, different flowers symbolize the three main different women, and reveal their human qualities, such as white lily symbolizes the pure mother's love; white roses and narcissi imply Miriam's pure spirit, whereas Miriam's intimacy to the flowers indicates that her tendency of possessing objects including Paul's soul; The crimson flowers refer to the passion of Clara. Here, the paper studies the relationship between flowers and main characters, showing that analyzing the meaning of the flowers is important to help us have a better understanding of the theme in the novel. Key words: flowers, relationship, character Introduction Lawrence's novels are always full of vivid descriptions of natural environment to show that human beings need to live in a healthy and natural world. Also the natural objects such as trees, flowers, the moon and evenings imply symbolic meanings to make the novel significant. To understand the novel better, this paper tries to use a Semiotics approach to interpret the main symbols, so as to reveal the theme of the novel. In Classics of Semiotics edited by Martin Krampen, Semiotics is thus defined: As a science of sign processes, semiotics investigates all types of communication and information exchange among human beings, animals, plants, internal systems of organisms. Thus it encompasses most of the subject areas of the arts and the social science, as well as those of biology and medicine. According to this theory, there should be some certain connections between the different flower symbols and the

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宠物看性格：养狗的外向勤奋养猫的内向邋遢【高考英语阅读素材】 In the war of the pets, dogs have won the latest battle - or at least their owners have.在宠物大战中，最近夺冠的是狗或者说至少是狗主人胜出了。 Research discovered not only are dogs the most popular animal of choice to have in the home - dog owners are hardworking early risers, and most likely to be married.研究发现狗不仅是家养宠物的首选养狗的人还是勤奋的早起者，而且大都已经结婚了。 Meanwhile cat owners are shy, single and messy, and people who own rabbits are more likely to be creative, laid back scatterbrains.与此同时，养猫的人容易害羞、单身、邋遢，养兔子的人比较有创造力,也比较神经大条。 Elsewhere, rabbit and dog owners said they were early risers, while cat lovers claimed to be night owls. The poll was conducted by UK pet insurer Petplan to celebrate the launch of its Find a Pet website.另外，养兔子和养狗的人说自己是早起者，而养猫的人声称自己是夜猫子。英国宠物保险公司Petplan组织了这次调查问卷，来庆祝它的网站Find a Pet的开张。 The most popular pet among the respondents was a dog, at 77 per cent. Cats owners made up 21 per cent of the respondents, while only 2 per cent owned rabbits. 参与者中77%的人养的是

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sons and lovers

内容简介 · · · · · · 《儿子与情人(Sons and Lovers)》是劳伦斯以他的童年和青少年时代生活为蓝本而写成的一部成名作。小说主人公保罗的父母莫瑞尔夫妇在一次舞会上一见钟情，缔结婚姻。但莫瑞尔是矿工，而莫瑞尔太太出身中产阶级。两人的生活理念截然不同，妻子面对丈夫的浑浑噩噩，深感希望破灭。对丈夫的失望、不满和怨恨使莫瑞尔太太把自己的感情和希望都倾注到儿子身上。她先是寄希望于长子威廉，然而长子早逝。她又寄希望于次子保罗，希望他能够出人头地，实现她的理想。她爱儿子，鼓励他成名成家，跻身于上流社会；她又从精神上控制儿子，使他不能钟情于别的女人。这使得保罗在以后的感情问题上迷茫、困惑、无所适从。和女友米莉安的交往使年轻的保罗经历了精神痛苦的过程。然而和他的母亲一样，米莉安也试图从精神上占有保罗，使保罗感到窒息。后来他们分手了。保罗身边还有一个与丈夫分居的名叫克拉拉的女人。保罗从她那里得到了肉体上的满足。不过最终克拉拉结束了和保罗的感情生活，回到丈夫身边。最后莫瑞尔太太病逝，保罗和米莉安也未能重归于好。他依旧孑然一人，四处漂流，继续着他精神上的挣扎。 The Wordsworth Classics covers a huge list of beloved works of literature in English and tr anslations. This growing series is rigorously updated, with scholarly introductions and notes added to new titles. This semi-autobiographical novel explores the emotional conflicts through the protagonist, Pa ul Morel, and the suffocating relationships with a demanding mother and two very different lovers. It is a Freudian exploration of love and possessiveness. https://www.sodocs.net/doc/7d9846142.html, Sons and Lovers was the first modern portrayal of a phenomenon that later, thanks to Freu d, became easily recognizable as the Oedipus complex. Never was a son more indentured to his mother's love and full of hatred for his father than Paul Morel, D.H. Lawrence's young protagoni st. Never, that is, except perhaps Lawrence himself. In his 1913 novel he grappled with the disc ordant loves that haunted him all his life--for his spiritual childhood sweetheart, here called Miria m, and for his mother, whom he transformed into Mrs. Morel. It is, by Lawrence's own account, a book aimed at depicting this woman's grasp: "as her sons grow up she selects them as lovers --first the eldest, then the second. These sons are urged into life by their reciprocal love of their mother--urged on and on. But when they come to manhood, they can't love, because their moth er is the strongest power in their lives." Of course, Mrs. Morel takes neither of her two elder sons (the first of whom dies early, wh ich further intensifies her grip on Paul) as a literal lover, but nonetheless her psychological snare is immense. She loathes Paul's Miriam from the start, understanding that the girl's deep love of her son will oust her: "She's not like an ordinary woman, who can leave me my share in him. She wants to absorb him." Meanwhile, Paul plays his part with equal fervor, incapable of committ ing himself in either direction: "Why did his mother sit at home and suffer?... And why did he ha te Miriam, and feel so cruel towards her, at the thought of his mother. If Miriam caused his mot her suffering, then he hated her--and he easily hated her." Soon thereafter he even confesses to his mother: "I really don't love her. I talk to her, but I want to come home to you." The result of all this is that Paul throws Miriam over for a married suffragette, Clara Dawes, who fulfills the sexual component of his ascent to manhood but leaves him, as ever, without a complete relationship to challenge his love for his mother. As Paul voyages from the working-clas s mining world to the spheres of commerce and art (he has fair success as a painter), he accep ts that his own achievements must be equally his mother's. "There was so much to come out of

sons and lovers 英文简介

Sons and Lovers is the third published novel of D.H. Lawrence, taken by many to be his earliest masterpiece. It tells the story of Paul Morel, a young man and a bud ding artist. This autobiographical novel is a brilliant evocation of life in a working class mining community. The original 1913 edition was heavily edited by Edward Garnett who removed eighty passages, roughly a tenth of the text. Despite this the novel is dedicated to Garnett. It was not until the 1992 Cambridge University Press edition that the missing text was restored. Lawrence rewrote the work four times until he was happy with it. Although before publication the work was usually call ed Paul Morel, Lawrence finally settl ed on Sons and Lovers. Just as this changed title makes the work l ess focused on a central character, many of the latter additions broadened the scope of the work thereby making the work l ess autobiographical. While some of the edits by Garnett were on the grounds of propriety or styl e, others woul d once more narrow the emphasis back upon Paul.

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Sons and lovers Chapter Nine The Defeat of Miriam After the wedding, Mrs. Morel sat thinking about her children. She hoped that Annie would have a happier marriage than she did. Arthur was now in the army and she knew that he hated it. And Paul seemed to be trapped in his own thoughts. She felt that she must stay strong, so she could guide her children to their happiness. Paul felt life changing around him. He was a man now. Annie and Arthur had left the house. He stayed, but felt something moving inside him. Sometimes he would meet Clara in Nottingham. When he was with her he felt as if he was in a larger more interesting world. She challenged him and made him feel alive. Miriam came to see that Paul could choose the lower path in life. He could be untrue to himself. She feared that he could become a man who chases after the easy joys of life, not the pure and true things that she thought were the real Paul Morel. She could not talk to him like Clara talked to him, but she felt that she could give him something much more valuable. Paul could take no more. He felt Miriam was too good for him. He could never live up to the idea she had of him. He knew that part of him wanted those better things in life, and part of him longed for Miriam. But he also knew that most of him simply wanted to live life. When she was twenty-one, he wrote her a letter. He told her that he could not be her man, as he would always fail her. They were joined at the mind, but life was so much more than that. So if either of them were to fully live, they would have to find other people to love. She read the letter twice before putting it away. She believed that from now on her life would be without love and without of any happiness. This was the end of the first part of Paul?s love affa ir. He was now twenty-three years old. He had not yet shared a bed with a woman; Miriam had stopped his natural desires. But now they returned. Often when he was with Clara, he could feel his blood grow thick with desire. A new world opened before his eyes. Chapter Ten Clara Paul and his mother now had long talks about life. Religion was no longer a part in the young man?s life.He had thrown away all the ideas that could stop him from living the life he wanted to live. In the past,

A brief plot of Sons and Lovers儿子与情人故事简介

A brief plot of Sons and Lovers Sons and Lovers was written by D. H. Lawrence, a famous English writer and poet. It is an autobiographical novel about a mother’s suffocating, possessive love for her son. Walter Morel, is a coal miner with a severe drinking problem. His wife is better educated than him. But Mr. Morel’s temper is getting worse, he always fights and argues with his wife. Mrs. Morel is disappointed, so she rests her hope on her first son---William, who is intelligent and active. Unfortunately, William dies, Mrs. Morel is depressed. She gives all love to her another son---Paul. She loves Paul very much and encourages him to become a successful business man. She controls Paul’s everything. However, Paul falls in love with Miriam later. Mrs. Morel is very angry and not allows Paul to marry Miriam. She thinks Miriam is a bad woman who wants to take her son away. Day after day, the emotion between Paul and his mother becomes deep. Paul finally follows his mother’s advice and ends his affair with Miriam. However, he then keeps ambiguous relationship with Clara who has a husband. But Clara, likes Miriam, wants their relationship permanent, or at least stable. This is impossible because Paul loves his mother so much. And finally, Paul’s mother is dying of stomach cancer. Paul gives her an overdose of morphine to end her suffering. After his mother’s death, Paul remains in deep despair. Eventually, he leaves the city and starts a new life.