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After the rain

It rained last night. When I woke up this morning, I went out, I found that the earth was soft and wet under my feet as I made my way to the path which led to the house. Small stones and sand were mixed and arranged along the pathway. As I stepped on them, they made my shoes muddy and difficult to walk. Little drops of rain clung to the grass which grew on both sides of the path.

The house was a grey brick one with big windows. It looked even more grey and dreary than it did in yesterday's sunlight. The light shone through the front window. It seemed to lend to the house a warm and inviting atmosphere.

The entire countryside was indeed wet and dreary, and I was glad to go into the house from which shone the inviting light.

The Weather in Hainan

The weather in Hainan is warm all year round.

Spring starts from late February to April. The weather in spring is warm, but sometimes it has a little rain. The wind is very cool, and there's beautiful sunshine every day. In spring, everything begins to grow. The trees turn green and all kinds of colourful flowers come out. The children often like to fly kites at this time.

Summer comes after spring. It lasts from May to July. The sun is quite bright, so it's very hot in summer. And it often has heavy rain. We like to have icecream in summer. Some of the girls like to wear beautiful skirts. Young people usually go swimming in the river or the lake. They have a lot of fun.

In autumn, it's often windy, sometimes it blows hard. Autumn here Is In August, September and October, and it's very cool. At this time of year the farmers are very busy, because they have a lot of rice and fruit to gather in. I can have a lot of delicious fruit in autumn, so I like autumn better than spring.

The weather in winter isn't very cold. It lasts from November to January. There is no snow and ice in winter, so we can't go skating.

Hainan is a beautiful island of China. Welcome you to Hainan!

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Weeks with sees our attractiveness level as akin to that of a discarded dishcloth, and the most physical we could see ourselves being with the guy who actually likes us is a game of ping pong over an especially long table. All of which means that someone usually ends up getting rejected. I'm sure I'm not alone when I say I have struggled with the scenario where I am not interested in a man romantically, but I want to keep him as a friend because he is funny and I enjoy his company, or he has shown himself to be that rare specimen known as "a nice, genuine person, " or he simply doesn't mention his therapist in every other sentence. Rather than string him along and give him hope, I feel compelled to somehow communicate to him sooner rather than later that we'll just be staying friends, nothing more. Otherwise, I think I am being unfair to him. Why should he waste his romantic stamina on me when there are loads of other single women out there who might fall instantly in love with him? 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